Is that really what you want?

This is a strange one really that i had no intention of writing, but as always Emily's blog inspired me to write it.

It is very strange to think that everything that we do could instantly change our lives completely or even without you realising. I know that things i do could instantly change my life like eg. playing the lottery and winning, having children etc. but there is sooo many things we don't think about that could impact on your life whether that being good or bad.. but bad things aren't  always necessarily so awful because after that you could  end up being somewhere wonderful in your life.

I think what it is, is that we all have goals and ambitions..things we crave to do. but if we don't do them it is just a dream in the back of your head or jotted on a piece of scrap paper labeled 'bucket list'.
If you are anything like me there will be some reason none of that stuff gets done whether its because of money issues, travel, no one to go with or subconsciously thinking 'she wont like it if i do that' 'what if this happens' 'im a bit of a scaredy cat' 'i will look like a loner'  but if its going to make you happy then why not do it because after that, it could motivate you to do everything you've ever wanted to do (and you want that right?).

imagine worrying about what everyone else thinks, or what they are doing and who they are with.. does that make you happy? of course it doesn't because they have probably over exaggerated or made it look great with their fancy photos on instagram and Facebook, i mean come on you don't want to show everyone the rubbish parts of your life, right? exactly, no one does, so they don't.
So unless its going to motivate you or inspire you then ignore them because not even celebrities have the most amazing lives ever.

Forget what everyone else thinks because it is your life, so do what is going to make you happy, unless it is dangerous and harmful to you or someone else then id strongly advise you not to.
if you want to de-friend someone because they are making you unhappy, do it! you want to travel the world? do it! you really  want to take a course that mum doesn't think its suitable, do it!

you learn from your mistakes right?

This was a massive ramble and honestly im not sure what the purpose was, i think it was just a life lesson to myself really haha, but if it helps anyone then that's great.

meg x